What Spiritual Work Can Do for You. Part 3
A Spiritual Self-Awareness Mentor Irina Baker interviewed her long-term client, a Business Mentor and Realtor™ Stacy Aronica on her results of doing deep spiritual work with Irina. Part 3 of the interview.
Irina Baker
A Spiritual Self-Awareness Mentor Irina Baker interviewed her long-term client, a Business Mentor and Realtor™ Stacy Aronica on her results of doing deep spiritual work with Irina. Part 3 of the interview.
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Self worth The would you say before and after this is the main thing for women for everybody but forwomen especially because it it looks like And I know it's true because it's a spiritual issue Women are bornwith low self worth period Not many women have very high self worth from the beginning Maybe they workon it but not at the beginning So a lot of women suffer from low self worth So howdid it change That's what we mainly do We change self worth inside Huge change I mean I don'teven know where to begin with that other than it's it's similar to what I was mentioning when you seeyourself in situations and you can see how you're handling it You're feeling it how you're thinking it how you'rehandling it so different And then you know oh it's because the self worth is very different and yourbehavior we've discussed it many times Your behavior is automatic in terms of this is not yourmental thing Oh I should be doing it but I actually am afraid inside or I feelbad inside or I feel inadequate inside how many times we with other clients aswell People would be afraid to take a test or they take a test and they failed and then afterthe session they go and they pass it with flying colors This is just an example of how it changesinside This is not mental This is not saying oh I can do it I can do it Right Noit's actually a feeling you don't say anything you just behave naturally in a verydifferent way Correct Exactly And that's how you know that the change is really there It's because you don'ta lot of times I don't even notice it until after the fact and that andthat's a huge part of the work is that we could going back to you know readingpodcast seminars retreats all of that which is all good and fine They have theirplace But you don't know if you are really if it's really clicking for real until you feel thinkand behave differently And when you do all those things on the mental level there's no waythat you can really feel think and behave differently And then when you're when you've evolved whenyou've shifted when you've released and processed you literally just change And then you realizethat or at least in my experience I realize that after the fact I surprised myself I justfeel think and act different and then I look back and I'm like wow okI really did change That was my proof And that's that's what counts You're not doing it mentallyThat's what counts You see it and then you say oh wow I did change It'strue Right And I'm sure it's the same with you I don't remember if we talk about talked about itUh When you came to me obviously you were brave enough again I will repeat to quit your jobto start the business and planning to start the business So obviously you you're youngyou still are young but you were younger at that time right You're young you're fullof energy you're smart you're intelligent you have training so you had everything to succeedSo you were not But but the point here I'm making you were not even awarehow low self worth there was inside right So we all because I've I've been like thisthe same That's how I started my spiritual journey Oh I was on top ofthe world I could take it all on Bring it on right And then yourealize because you're doing the work and you're uncovering stuff inside right More and moreAnd then you're saying oh my goodness I had a friend or a friend who saidshe she's very very again like I described all the confident and everything outgoing and everything And shetold me one day I she said I know deep inside I'm still working onmy self worth But if you come to me and tell me in my face that Ihave low self worth I'll punch you in the face We were laughing about it Right Because really Icannot tell a woman you are you will you have low self worth because she doesn't even realize itSo she thinks she's fine Right Did you start like this too So I mean I did not want tobe punched in the face so I didn't say anything You just I let you uncover it on your ownYeah Yeah I mean there's there's layers there for sure Yeah you you are not the one aware ofit So in other words when people come to me they're not aware of what's inside Absolutely Andthen the work starts and the masks are taken That's what I'm trying to say Yes Yeah YesAnd I remember at the beginning um so I have always you know and anyone listening who's highly sensitive andvery intuitive and um um all of that that will this could resonate where I thought thatI was so aware I thought that I was so in touch with my feelings and I knew whatwas aside because I just I've always lived a more of an internal life just by my nature my personalityUm But the difference is when we do this work you really get to the core of it and processand release it which is way different than just so the way that I I remember it fromthe beginning is and I um this is the best way for me to explain it I thought that Iwas so aware and in touch with my feelings But really I was only going like here ifyou know were to give it like a level But then when we do this workwe go like all the way to the core And so when you're going from here to here you thinkoh my gosh I'm feeling all this I'm thinking all this I'm I'm going through all of this I'mso aware but that's like half of it Not even And then when you really go allthe way then you realize really what's what's to be deeply uh or what's deep and needs to be uncoveredAnd um it's amazing because yeah you realize there's a lot of a lot of junk inthere You showed the good great visual This is great I'm going to remember thishere and here Yeah But yeah yeah because because this is mindset people people do alot of mindset work But mindset is even in the name mind mind mind the mind is already set maybethey're resetting it but it's all in the mind It's mental We go deep we go very spirituallydeep Yeah Absolutely It's a whole another it's a whole another level Um And becauseI thought that all there really was to it was I mean everything to me was like um completely separatedeven though I didn't know that it was completely separated I had all this spiritual knowledge and then I'm thinkingok well I'm an emotional person I feel my feelings because I I always allowed myself tofeel which is very different than people who don't allow themselves Like they don't even know knowwhat emotion they're living in or even know what it feels like or ever cry or there's people likethat right But I just thought oh I'm fine I know when I'm sad when I'mangry when I'm fearful I let myself feel it That's not what we're talking about This is the deep workthat I mean I could just go on and on but I'll stop myself and pray on attention No it'sperfect It's perfect You did describe it very well Exactly because and and the mainpoint I do want you to repeat it because this is so big and it's not coming from me becauseof course I know and I say it but it's coming from you as a client right Not notthe mentor as I am spiritual So you said uh you've been in a spiritual world already You've you'vedone it you went to retreats you've done all the work that because you wereseeking for answers and you were not even aware that two worlds did not matchfor you They did not meet spiritual world was here Let's read about it Let's enjoy itLet's say light and love Yeah that's great But physical let's hustle here Let's dophysical work with which is they did not mesh mesh They yeah I have like fulllike angel buns right now because I vividly remember being in the car thinking this and also speaking toone of my friends who um helped me to get onto the path which eventually led me to youUm But this was more of the metaphysical and mental stuff I remember reading about this these spiritual concepts andthis feelings of bliss and and peace and harmony and and all of these things that um a lot ofthem were like like books and videos youtube that I would watch and stuff And I remember thinkinglike I would have these fleeting moments of feeling this peace that they they talk about and this blissthat they talk about And I would have these moments And I I just remember saying to my friendand thinking this in the car like very strongly like I want to have these moments every day I wannahave these moments for hours I want to have these moments for days upon days And it wouldjust be these fleeting moments and it was actually pretty sad and and kind ofdepressing which was why I so strongly wanted to work with you because I knewthat it was different and I have that now I have hours and days that I just feel that peacethat harmony that bliss that connection that I didn't even know was even possible or where to even sourceit from Like I didn't have a relationship with God I didn't have a relationship with the divine Iread about it but I didn't know how to to get there is such a gap between what I knewcognitively and what I was experiencing in my life And I had no idea how tobridge that gap And so that's what is so cool about working with you Irina becausewe do this deep deep personal work that our soul and we call it live stream but soul forpeople listening and relate with that word Um that your soul is like waiting for you to dowaiting for you to get on this path and we do it in the most practical way So it'slike imagine that like you're doing the deepest work in the most practical way Like that's right Prettyamazing That's right That's right And you just led me straight to my next questionAre you connected with the divine Because that's the main outcome we provide here right Inthe spiritual work connection with the divine So before you answer this you already said itUh but what was before did you have What kind of feeling you had Was it void Was it emptinessHow did you know that you were disconnected Before you were talking about this gap That was your gapHow did you experience that gap What was it there And I didn't even consciously or I mean in thosein those moments where I was asking like I want to have this feeling for hours ordays I didn't know that Actually that was the connection with God I just wanted thatfeeling but I didn't know what I was actually asking for I had no ideawhat I was missing what the the connection that was missing in my life I hadI had no clue I I just didn't have a relationship with God I wasn'tit wasn't like I didn't think God existed Like no I believe God is Godexisted It just my whole life I didn't have a relationship But if we ask you if somebody wouldask you at that time before you met me do you have relationship with God or do you areyou connected to the divine What would you say at that time at that time I would probably shrugmy shoulders and say oh sure Right And that would be that it's inside it's one thing insideand you get used to you got used to living like this and because youread so much uh metaphysical literature and go into so many different places and learningspiritual stuff Well yeah of course that's all I'm doing Right Right But the truth isyou're not connected at all at all And I thought I didn't know that that waswhy I came to work with you I had no idea Like I wanted something completelydifferent and and it actually surprised me when I was like oh this is what I came for Um infact every single person who now I'm more open to spiritual stuff But before I would invitepeople to have physical results because you're not aware of spiritual you don't care about spiritual You're already well readand well traveled right So why would you need spiritual all you need is the moneyand the success in business and all the good physical stuff to make you happy right Becauseyou're not aware that's what you want right During the journey the priorities change the goals changethe purpose in life changes everything changes because awareness changes Exactly Yeah the awareness change and goingback to those years ago than before we started working together and I was in my car sayingI I want to feel the certain way it is that way Uh There's this overalllens of peace Like when we say rose colored glasses or something there is there's like rose coloredglasses but not in a cliche way Like in a true way over everything even the most difficultsituations are more manageable and they're more meaningful And I have dealt with very difficult situations during theseven years that we've worked together I had two experiencing two deaths that were very in like amongthe closest relationships to me during that time And there's been other things that people you know oras humans you know we we we consider a great loss Um And having that communication with the divinehaving that relationship with God has made situations more manageable even more meaningful because you see the silver lining yousee the spiritual meaning behind why it happened and when it happened and and have a system you have ayeah and tools to turn it into an opportunity and healing opportunity not just drama Exactly And evenin challenging situations you can still see how you're in the flow and how you're connectedeven when it can be chaos happening around you or something unpleasant happening around youyou still have this awareness that you're still right where you're supposed to be because with that communication andwith that with with those the support the support spiritual support Yeah So we talked about the self forthat tremendously increased Faith has tremendously grown right Do you feel free Because every business entrepreneur ora business woman every entrepreneur woman wants to be free and basically every person everyhuman wants to be free So would you say you feel free Now I doI I laugh because before we started working together I had this phrase that myself and a lot of friendsthat I at that time would say and we would I think I think this thiscame from some somebody else from stage It was like a and it's I wanna do what I wantwhen I want how I want however I want with whoever I want And that's how we would saythat's being free And when I look back on the journey yeah I that's pretty much howI live my life So I would say so So would you say you are completelydifferent person from where you started and where you are now Yeah I'm different but I'm I'm also just I'mjust actually me like I wasn't even really myself then I was like a shell of myself And now I'mlike actually myself In other words you found yourself right You found yourself and you retrieveyourself you brought her to the surface Yeah And how does it feel amazing The the result alsoI'm talking about achieving mastery spiritual mastery over the physical world What what would you sayabout it Of course we don't claim to be masters I don't claim to be a master You don't claimto be a master but mastery to me achieving spiritual mastery over the physical world means to applypractically which I always this is my mantra right We don't want thesis we don'ttheory we want practical application That's how I wanted my life to change in a practical ways Andyou mentioned that you wanted the practical ways and you got this here because everything here is spiritual practicality rightAnd so spiritual mastery means having tools having systems having the knowledge having the expanded consciousness orchange consciousness change the vibration to be a master of the physical world versus the physical world Mastering you becausemajority of people are mastered by the physical world Yes Yeah So do you feel like you areachieving achieved or achieving spiritual mastery of the physical world You live as you're not you're not Well weknow divine is in control but you are in control of the you are domain domain your physical domainbecause you know how to handle any situation in life Anything anything that comes to you youknow how to handle because you handling it from the spiritual perspective with the spiritual toolsand everything else 100% I think you said it perfectly right there Just I echo that I don'teven really need to add anything to it which is which is that is how you know you havespiritual mastery over the physical because you know that you can handle anything that comesyour way I think that's that's it right there Yeah So what would you say to women entrepreneursBecause I do work with women entrepreneurs business women what would you say to women entrepreneurs who arelistening to this or maybe she would listen to my teachings at some point Whatwould you say to her Would you encourage or recommend or anything to what would you sayto her to to be on a spiritual journey Oh of course Yeah So going back to what Iwas saying um a little bit ago which was you are getting the best ofboth something different than you've ever even imagined or experienced which is the deep healing spiritual work and practicalitySo there's something that it stuck with me Something you said to me at the very beginningwhen we started working together which someone who is a entrepreneur has probably done business trainings has hadmentors And so this can resonate which was you had told me um because we signed upfor the first you know length of time to work together And I'm thinking of it in like thenormal way that I'm trained which is you're gonna go through a process and every week we meetand there's gonna be new information new material rather than just assuming that that's how it'sgonna go And you and I remember there was one week early on and you hadsaid well I've already I'm just paraphrasing This is obviously seven years ago Um I already taughtyou everything and I'm and I'm like almost mad but also happy like what are you talking about You taughtme everything you're like yeah And I don't remember if this was me thinking this orif you actually said this because it was years ago But the concept of it's notworking with Irena for six months a year two years however long you decide or whatever or more And thenyou're just slowly gonna get these bread bread crumbs of tools and secrets And ohat the end of this then you'll know everything or or it's not like a normal traditional I guess thisbetter word program Irena teaches pretty basic practical systems and tools at the very beginning And the work isus as the mentees doing the work And then you know you guiding us through as the mentor as weliterally peel the onion But it's we always go back to the same stuff It's just different everytime because it's depending on where we are on the journey But it's not like you're slowly givingus this gradual information And then now we suddenly one day in the future will have thesecret So that's part of what I want to share with entrepreneurs because it's very different than howwe're normally train taught experience with mentors And um even to this day we joke because you'llask me a question and you're like you know it's easy I don't ask difficult questions is whatyou always say I don't ask difficult questions right Because sometimes you know we um we have so much knowledgethat we think it's harder than it really is or more difficult than it really isAnd so um that's that's part of what I want to share and and just be open Um becausethis journey is nothing like you've ever heard read or experience So just be openand um yeah it will change your life So and business right Life and life and business andon the business side um there's just this deeper level of certainty um when you're going about your businessSo just we talked about the money but in general with business decisions with who we work with orjust other day to day practical decisions When you're doing this work you can literally use itto apply to the day to day And that's of course how you continue to grow But it'sit's very helpful It it provides like I said that level of certainty in those decisions that I myphrase I always say I know that I know that I know because it's notcoming from here So you spend less time worrying you spend less time second guessing yourself There's this commonphrase that people are saying right now which is that impostor syndrome you don't have impostorsyndrome when you're on a spiritual journey It there's no a posture syndrome doesn't exist because everything is comingfrom a deep inside place So it just doesn't exist So um those are someof the examples of how it's it can really help in the in business Exactly InPastor syndrome we don't even know what it is because it's not done It's not even there YeahI don't even know if it's gone or not because was it there I don't know I'm sure it's maybesome time ago but because like I said on the spiritual path it's not there it's gone permanentlyThe same as fear of not having money Not not making money That's fear that fear isgone permanently not temporary You don't need to constantly deal with it when it comes up again because it's goneAnd I remember when it was gone I remember it was like a line inthe road like this issue is now done Wow Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Amazing RightYeah Yeah And if a woman entrepreneur says I don't have the money right now butthere is an opportunity the person is here and hearing us and maybe my teaching your your information and soforth and she says well I don't have the money or I have the money butI want to rather keep it And I know you mentioned before But what would you say to thatwoman who's on the fence She wants to engage she wants to be embark on the journey but she's scaredWhat if money never comes And she would spend this money and then no money comesWhat would you say to her Yeah Yeah I would say listen to that that desire that poolbecause that's that's that's your life stream your soul telling you do it That's thethat's you That's actually the real you calling you is what that is It's the egoit's the mind that saying all the other stuff That's right So just do it the decision firstand money will follow Right Exactly It will it will work out every single time Um guaranteed becausebecause it has for everybody it has Yeah And another question I would like to ask uh about psychicabilities and we don't mean I for some people it's scary Or psychic abilities issomething that terror reader would do or psychic reads things I'm not talking about that because psychic abilities to meI just use this term to describe our intuition how we because when we connect with the divine wewe use our intuition also we have a system Uh and we're going to talk about itat another interview but we go we we are using the system the tools tobe really connected and really tuned in and connected to the divine and know the answersand feel it and sense and receive right So we have direct communication and I know we'regoing to do a interview on divine guidance science specifically But I do want to ask you did your psychicabilities increase Oh yes Exponentially right Exponentially Yes Yes Do you want me to elaborate for showcaseplease So the when I first started working with you I didn't I've had psychic abilities my whole lifebut I didn't trust them And any time that I would share any of my psychic abilities Ialways got a negative response from people Um basically you know I'm weird Whatever Theydidn't believe you they didn't believe you What else What kind of response You're weird You should It it'sright It's crazy Right Yeah All that kind of stuff And so when we started working together itit was like a safe place to actually really talk about my psychic abilities and you provide toolsto help increase those abilities And so you know gradually each time um I began to trustmore and more in my abilities and also express gratitude for them in the moment umwhich brought more of them to me and the ability increased as well So thequality of the psychic abilities and the frequency has increased because um of the tools andand trusting and and allowing it not blocking it like I was before So it's been really coolright Growing in faith and doing all the work spiritual work we increase vibration Andwhen you increase vibration your perception of the spiritual world increases and opens up So basicallywhat we're working here on we increase our not only connection but actually the whole uh I don'teven know how to say it because we increase we we increase our yeah all of our sensesYeah our senses and fi five senses are fine in the material world but we have our sixthsense and maybe the seventh sense because they are the senses for the spiritual workAnd that's what we that's what improves and increases ex increases exponentially And we do havea sele operation here in place for our psychic abilities the psychic moment So we lovethose And like I said we don't give readings we do not engage in those things but again weuse them practically Right We use our psychic abilities in practical in a practical way in everydaylife dealing with everyday situation Yes Situation Exactly Right Exactly