what'd you say what'd you do does it matter it does matter because in the big picture

when we're talking about who were doing things for lots of times we're doing it for other

people and not ourselves we get stuck in this trap of oh when I am going to do if

they don't like this or how are they going to take it if I disc and how

am I going to do that well let's break it down realistically we we are our own people

we have to do what we need to do for our mental health for our

self care so when we could evolve for are doing things for other people to doing things for ourselves us

being the primary people that we need to work more than there's a lot of things that can get

done it's not always about another person it isn't always about what they want it's about what we

want and what we can do

what'd you say what'd you do does it matter it does matter because in the big picture

when we're talking about who were doing things for lots of times we're doing it for other

people and not ourselves we get stuck in this trap of oh when I am going to do if

they don't like this or how are they going to take it if I disc and how

am I going to do that well let's break it down realistically we we are our own people

we have to do what we need to do for our mental health for our

self care so when we could evolve for are doing things for other people to doing things for ourselves us

being the primary people that we need to work more than there's a lot of things that can get

done it's not always about another person it isn't always about what they want it's about what we

want and what we can do